Talking about sex and expectations around sex is one of the more vulnerable conversations couples have. There might be shame about wanting or not wanting sex, confusion over mis-matched desire, changing bodies and needs.
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Something that regular therapy offers is the consistency and availability that may have been missing early on. For relational and attachment oriented therapy, this is a critical part of the healing process. The consistency of a therapeutic space, time, and person, is the foundation for attachment therapy.
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In a world marked by rapid change, economic instability, global crises, and constant information overload, uncertainty has become a regular state of being. Understanding how this ongoing uncertainty fuels anxiety can help us respond more skillfully.
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There’s been a true uptick in political unrest over the last couple of weeks. It’s a lot to take in, and you may be feeling the powerlessness that comes with watching things unfold and not knowing what you can do about it.
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There’s a lot of memory in a family system. It can feel like it’s frozen in time, suddenly you’re back to your 15 year old self––angsty, upset, tearful, and annoyed by everyone. You may be a competent adult with boundaries, but you’re suddenly back to that familiar role.
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Perhaps one of the unexpected challenges of life after trauma, is the struggle to connect and linger with enjoyable or pleasurable experiences. Sometimes a nervous system stuck in a trauma response, doesn’t have much tolerance for enjoyment. This can be the result of shut-down, hypervigilance, fear, and anxiety.
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I recently heard this phrase “the grief of lost time” and it hasn’t left my mind. I heard it used in the context of acknowledging the time lost in this current age of technology, where we lose hours of our lives to scrolling mindlessly.
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You might appear like you’re functioning just fine––going to work, sleeping, eating, taking care of your family, etc. But inside you may be struggling, feeling down and disconnected from yourself and others.
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Our news is obviously filled with suffering and global crises. We need to be mindful of how these crises can affect our mental health, the signs and symptoms that your nervous system is totally overwhelmed, and ways to support yourself when this happens.
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Burnout doesn’t often arrive suddenly, with sirens and flashing lights. Often, it’s a slow creep. A steady drain. A dimming of your inner light and a growing heaviness in your mind-body system.
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Have you ever wondered how to make good use of your therapeutic time and space? Sometimes clients need a little help to figure out how therapy works or how to use the space well. Here are a few things I’ve noticed can contribute to therapy being what you need it to be.
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I have a lot of conversations with clients about how they are finding joy and rest. This is part of how we allow our nervous systems to recover from stress and often how we are connecting with others or ourselves. The “always-on” culture of the world today makes it hard to experience true rest.
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The pace of the mind is fast. The world is full of noise, both literal and figurative. This can really set the stage for an anxious mind and body. To better cope with anxiety, mindfulness offers a powerful set of tools to bring you back to the present and help you manage the experience in a grounded, sustainable way.
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It’s important to remember that it’s not the presence of conflict that determines the health of a relationship. It’s how the disagreement is handled that matters. Finding ways to navigate respectful disagreement is important for building more resilient and connected relationships.
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When the news is filled with violence—political assassinations, escalating war, hunger and malnutrition, and other traumatic events—it can take a toll on our emotional well-being. It’s important to know how this kind of media exposure can affect your mental health and what you can do to care for yourself.
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In a world that constantly demands our time, energy, and attention, setting boundaries isn't just a self-care strategy—it's a survival skill. Without clear limits, we risk becoming overwhelmed, burnt out, and disconnected from ourselves and others.
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I’ve often noticed a connection between people who have experienced trauma and the challenge with emotional expression. This tends to go one of two ways for folks: either a difficulty accessing, identifying, and communicating feelings OR on the other end of the spectrum, emotional flooding and difficulty with regulating big emotions.
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I work with many clients who find themselves awake at night, ruminating on a stressor, or noticing their stomach is in knots with anxiety. In my study of somatic therapy and the neurobiology underpinning many mindful interventions, I’ve found guided imagery can be an effective technique for helping to manage stress.
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I frequently encounter individuals who struggle with relationships that blur the line between love and codependency. Understanding the distinction and finding ways to reset imbalances and restore healthy boundaries is essential for personal growth and sustaining healthy, fulfilling relationships.
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I work with clients of all stages of life who express persistent feelings of loneliness, and while the journey toward reconnecting with others and ourselves can take time, it’s entirely possible to move through loneliness and find deeper connection.
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